it's funny, in a sad way
how it is so hard for some people to understand?
eps. for someone who is turning 18 (for crying out loud)
may be it is easier
not knowing what is wrong or right.
It is really NOT about WHO you wronged that turns me off
you did not wrong me, as far as I am concerned
I refuse to take side... there is not such a need to complicate my life this way.
It is really WHAT you did that make me look at you in a totally different light.
I am not perfect in any possible way.
Still I have not yet lost my moral compass
why is this simple thing so hard for people to figure out?
Please don't insult me by thinking that I have to take my friend's side to maintain our friendship. I don't trade my morality for such absurd reason. It does not make sense. When my friend is wrong, I can tell her straight ahead: you are bloody incorrect. The only different is that I would not leave my friend even though I may disagree with her. Are you my friend from the first place? Are you "friend" enough to understand where I was coming from?
I cared.
with the capital D which denotes the past tense.
It also implies I don't bother anymore.
it is a waste, to explain to someone 3 times that the person is not correct
and see no change
I do not talk to just anybody, not to mention attempt to correct things that do not affect my life.
yet I actually tried.
The fact that there is no change, simply shows
the person does NOT have the intellectual capacity to think
Out of frustration I am typing this out, after remarkable reflection of self and acquaintances'behaviors.
A lesson learned: if someone even bother to insult you or tell you off: the person still CARES about you and at least, in stead of fighting back to show that you are RIGHT (chances are: YOU ARE NOT): LISTEN and REFLECT
I am learning also.
in every possible way, I am trying to control my behavior most of the time. Van said I am someone who cannot tolerate stupidity. it is true, I guess, not knowing something, not realizing something is a misfortune. It is plainly ... sad that you don't have the capacity to understand it. But pretending to know something you don't to look good, worse still: pretending not knowing you are wrong to commit an act, well, that's what pisses me off the most.
If you know it is wrong yet you still insist on doing it, at least don't pretend that you are morally correct. In that way, I can still respect you and your determination to continue what you started. You can't have it all. Pretending to be a nice person while stabbing your friends from the back... or something like that.
I don't know in which direction I am developing my characters and principles. One thing for sure: I don't want to pretend to like someone I don't, to be fair, I will tell you what I dislike about you. We try to figure it out. If it does not work... let's not bother.
GOSH, think!
How hard is it?
