April showers! Bring me fowers

...down pours the rain - the memories of love, remain

It's been 3 months with odds since Fatty's death. Things still go on, I wake up every morning - breathing evenly, I go to school, do homework, attend meetings - cry once in a while for no rhyme or reason in the middle of no where, and then I wipe all my tears away - like nothing happens.

'Cuz nothing happens, nothing actually happens. Come April showers, bring me spring flowers. The merciless cycle of life and death. Today, I am drenched in the cold rain, with my hair royally fucked up and my notes soaked. Winds still blow and cruel scoring sun still dries away everything under the sky like nothing Just happened. Nothing happens or had happened 'Cuz no matter how much I cry, life still goes on as if I haven't lost someone I love, someone dear. So I don't make it a public scene anymore. 'Cuz no one freaking really cares a part of me dies along with their departure... No one knows behind the closed door, in the rain, on her way back in pitch dark, a young girl took off her tough mask wearily and let her tears fall.

April Rain.

It's not the first time I could not say goodbye to the one I love. After Aricin's death, comes grandma's sudden departure - and Fatty slipped away in pain. My Fatty suffered so much before he slipped away, so much that my heart shatters at the mere memories of our last farewell. He was being coy and did not come to say goodbye to me when I was leaving for America. I told him - "As if you are that special" and left. He walked up stair in silence. The darkness swallowed him - I was breathless for a moment but I did nothing... I left, not knowing the next time I could see him was through Skype, he could barely stand up, barely breath, barely eat anything or drink. But stand up he did, crawled toward the computer where he could hear my voice more clearly... Mom said he could have another day or two... December 26, 2010 at roughly 2pm Vietnam time, eternally he rests, my Fatty, my love, my "master of the house". Mom and dad sent Fatty to grandmother. Dad took half day off, driving in the December rain to bring Fatty to his last home on earth. I wasn't there. 
I
Was
Not
There

April Rain.

And the days slowly creeps in ... gentle reminder that Aricin had been gone for so so long. 4 years. I turned 18, 19, 20, 21 and 22 soon without him. I grow older than Aricin, when he passed away at the age of 19. I have so much more to give, so much more to live for - so I bite my lips and press on. Whenever someone tells me it's impossible, that I cannot do it, that this is off my reach, I bites my lips again and press on. For the girl, loved by Aricin, will never be a quitter - she will create miracle and nothing less than perfection. Fearless as I seem, I am scared of free time, scared of nothingness, scared of having that much freedom on my own. I am scared that without fail, my heart goes back to the grave I left my love rest in peace years ago. 

April Rain.
The merciless cycle of Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter, Spring goes on. When April rain comes, I know it's time ... The memories relieve. Like dead flowers of the yester-year, new love springs up from the grave of the past. I wonder, still wonder, that one day when my heart learns to love again, will I still cry whenever April comes and leaves? Will I still remember how Aricin's departure changed me forever? How I learn to let go of everything dear - the last lesson he taught me, taught me really well?

So here I kneel, in the memories of grandmother, my guardian angel, bless me with strength and will power. She who knew loneliness. She who lived 43 years of her life in the remembrance her husband, her lover, her life knew longing and strength, and loyalty and everything that I admire. Bless me with your wisdom - it's April, grandmother, and I should not lie: I miss him so...